There are many things that men don’t know about women’s wants in the
bedroom. It’s not because men don’t care, it’s just because the subject
either hasn’t come up or she’s too shy to offer you this information.
While every woman is different, there are some things all women can
generally agree on when it comes to sex.
Because couples who communicate their needs and desires have far better sex more often, you should encourage her to talk about the things she wants. In the meantime, to get you started, we’re giving you five feel-good secrets she’s been hiding.
Because couples who communicate their needs and desires have far better sex more often, you should encourage her to talk about the things she wants. In the meantime, to get you started, we’re giving you five feel-good secrets she’s been hiding.
She likes period sex
Generally,
this is true, but there are rules. It can tend to get very wet very
quickly; throwing a sausage down Niagara Falls may be a more appropriate
description. And make sure you are both showered and clean. The other
problem you may face is temporary vaginal dryness. If she uses tampons,
expect a little uncomfortable friction after she removes it to have sex,
and prepare by having some lube
handy. She will warm up pretty quickly, but dry sex is painful and
unpleasant, so don’t blow your future chances by being too forthright in
the entering department. The bonus of period sex is she is likely to be
quite randy -- hormones make this a positive (but obstacle-laden) time
for nookie. Don’t try to go down on her
unless you have a death wish or share morbid vampire fantasies because
she will knock you out of the way faster than you can say “What’s that
taste?”
secret 2
She doesn’t like never-ending sex
This is
faking-it territory. Don’t believe the hype: Being the man means being a
man and knowing when to just sit back and relax and enjoy the fruits of
your labor. A happy girl on your hands is great, so don’t blow your own
rep by trying to prove yourself. Yes, love machines exist, but aren’t
they wired to just keep on pounding away? Aren’t they made of plastic
and rubber? Women want a lover, not a love machine. Women adore orgasms
as much as the next man, but one is good -- just make it count. Two is a
bonus (but the bonus need not include strenuous and lengthy attempts to
achieve) and after that, well that all depends on the situation. Know
when to relax into her arms and enjoy the smell of her hair. No doubt,
if she is still up for it she will -- in no uncertain terms -- let you
know.
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